How Much Indulgence Should You Provide Your Children?
You’re a totally proud parent. And why shouldn’t you be? Your child is entirely awesome, and she knows it. How does she know it? Well, probably because you indulge her every little whim and fancy. Okay, okay, it’s perfectly alright to indulge your child every once in a while. Maybe even more than that. But when it gets to the point that she’s acting more like a dictator than a daughter , you’ve got a problem. So how much indulgence should you provide? That’s not an easy question to answer. That said, read on for some tips on judging what’s too much and when to say no: Expecting More Than Just Enough How much do you expect of your child? You might think it’s more than it actually is. Indulgence doesn’t only equal giving too many material ‘things’. It’s also about giving too much of yourself. Obviously, you want to give yourself to your child. You’re a parent, that’s kind of in the job description. But there comes a point when you’re doing everything and expecting very little from your child. Chances are you’ve heard the term “helicopter mom.” Not only does she hover, but she does, and does, and does some more, for her child.